They say though that we do more to avoid pain than we do to gain pleasure. So it is when the pain becomes too much that we finally find the courage to make changes

They say though that we do more to avoid pain than we do to gain pleasure. So it is when the pain becomes too much that we finally find the courage to make changes (Bronnie Ware, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing)